Forgiveness is the gift you give yourself. I know its easier said than done, my wife had a one nighter 2 years ago it devastated me and I thought we had worked through it. Just when I was about the heal this second round hit, I think her little fling 2 years ago was a dress rehearsal for the final act. If you do stay with her she should have to work her butt off to prove that shes not doing anything. She should also understand it will take years for you to ever trust her and she should be OK with that. If she works on herself then keeping your family together is great, but if she thinks you should act like nothing ever happened then you should probably move on.
M40, W 37 M 11 1/2 y T 13 y D filed 5-18-10 S 5-29-10 OM1 discovered 6-5-10 Counter sued for d 6-16-10 OM2 discovered 8-10-10 OM3, OM4 4 kids 10, 7, & 3 D date 10-14-10 http://tiny.cc/mxzct
