XH is marrying OW after only 5 months of D!!

[lea74]

Thank you all so much for the advise. Yes, you are all correct I do spend too much thinking about the XH and the OW - wasted energy I know.

I had actually being doing really well until the latest bomb. I have been with my XH since I was 14yr so this has been a huge life change for me. Actually I am really enjoying my independance and being able to make decisions for myself without having to check-in with someone else. Oddly I also now enjoy paying the bills - something I never did before.

I know it sounds sinister but I would like my XH and OW to feel a litle bit of the pain that my sons and I have had to ensure. Maybe XH does - he doesnt get to spend as much time with my wonderful sons as I do.

I was chatting to a frined of mine yesterday and she said that I am now queen of my castele - this is somehting I really like to picutre. Me standing at my front door with a gorgeous cronw on my head and a lovely robe - LOL.