My daughter says that it is BS. She said he is trying to suck up. I was wondering if WS's cake-eat with other family members as well as the spouse?
I don't know if this would be considered cake eating. He loves his daughter. Not too many of us here can accurately describe how a mlc'er actually feels. Furthest thing from good.
This sounds more to me like him wishing her a happy birthday with all he can offer up right now. You can bet he feels guilt like no other among many other things.
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I am in a down mood. OW is likely living with H. Trying to shake this dang feeling like I have to compete with that "Ya-bo." I feel like H is hooked into her for good as she keeps feeding his ego. She does this well. I am trying hard to detach and not react to this.
I can see why.
For good? Are you sure?
See this for what it is, and it's definitely not a real relationship.
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did have a nice day celebrating my daughters birthday.Both daughters and I went to coffee, shopping at thrift store for Halloween stuff, supper out, then browsing at bookstore. It was a lovely day. I am very THANKFUL for them in my life.
Focus and perspective. This view doesn't sound down at all. Choose to see the good.
