SL,

I agree with Trapt, your goals are excellent.

So you think it is MLC...

Read the resources, and the archives...they will help you to be sure...

When you get the book, read it also. Just keep in mind that MLC is no short road.

The things in the book, will help you. Key word being YOU.

On the ML front, that has to be your call. There is no right way to go about any of this, but there can be a wrong way...

Pursuing, crying, bargaining...wrong way...

Some people choose to keep the physical contact, some don't...

Each situation is different.

Others will be along to welcome you as well.

So welcome to our Crazy Wonderful World LOL smile


"Acceptance doesn't mean resignation. It means understanding that something is what it is and there's got to be a way through it."--Michael J. Fox