Originally Posted By: ShantillyLace

I have some small goals.
- when he says something to me to blame me I will say I am sorry you feel that way.
I will no longer defend myself against his attacks (which are few and far between)
- I won't leap to the phone or answer his texts promptly.
- On the weekend when he takes the girls I will try and get out and try new things. Money is limited but I will do something.
- I am going to start my hobbies again and if I truly find no joy in them sell the stuff and try something new.


Welcome to Club Crazy!

Brilliant!

Goals are a must and these are a perfect start. They all are a step in the right direction and are focus around the right person. You.

Wonderful start.


Don't stand still.