Sorry to hear about your sitch. I'm new and can see that I maybe in your shoes in a few months. My question for you is, why can't you forgive her? I can understand not being able to trust her, but why not forgive her? I know it is easier said than done, but why?
I really don't mean any disrespect, and I'm not saying I could do it in your sitch.
Good luck to you.
M:37 W:34 M:4 years T:6 years No Kids A disclosed - 9/1/2010 W asks for separation - 10/19/2010 Moving on - 10/24/2010 A ends (and I believe her) - 12/2010 Content - 3/1/2011 Served - 3/18/2011 D Day - 6/20/2011