it has been a VERY long time since i have even came to this site.

over the past several months i have went through all the stages of emotion one can think of when their spouse cheats on them.

in the begining i wanted nothing more to get my family back together and move forward...much easier said than done. sadly she has decided to come back to me and as hard as i try i cannot get past the fact that she betrayed me, our family and had sex with OM (repeatedly over close to 6 months). I really want my family to be intact but i cannot forgive what she did....as hard as i try.

I have no ill feelings for her as i still love her...but not in love with her...funny same line she used on me almost a year ago.

just wanted to thank all of those who helped me through my toughest times - not sure what i am oing to do going forward but at this point just kind of hanging in limbo.

thanks again everyone - hope you others have better success than i did in the end.

Last edited by gman; 10/13/10 03:33 PM.

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