I've only just begun!

[sandycay]

AG called last night after a few text exchange. He asked my permission to call. It was very thoughtful because of the kids.


We talked for about an hour. It was pleasant.

I am being mindful of what a friend shared with me of something that she saw in me back in August. She told me she thought I was co-dependant. I've been researching that and going back over the relationships of past and since August and she is right.

I am working on that, so normal tendancy would be to jump on the AG relationship potential... because it is probably there.

But I am not going to do that this time. I want to take a "Kerry" approach and a) concentrate on my kids b) concentrate on myself & school & continue to GAL of things I want.

So, I will keep AG in a friend category... for coffee, hiking, and maybe occasional dinner. Until I feel ready to take on something instead of something taking on me. I think I do that because I fear I will "miss" out on 'the one".

Just a personal goal until I see those codependant thoughts and actions disappear.