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Re: Is there any hope for us? So Ashamed #2088205 10/12/10 01:21 PM
Joined: Jun 2007 Posts: 18,666 Likes: 1 S sandi2 Member
sandi2 Member S Joined: Jun 2007 Posts: 18,666 Likes: 1	I have some kind of weird problem with my home computer and that's why I have not been able to post. I didn't want you to think I was ignoring you. As soon as I get my computer fixed, I'll do my best to reply. In the meantime, don't give up. My M made it and yours can also. It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!

Re: Is there any hope for us? sandi2 #2088314 10/12/10 03:52 PM
Joined: Sep 2010 Posts: 194 S So Ashamed OP Member
OP So Ashamed Member S Joined: Sep 2010 Posts: 194	Sandi, Thanks so much for your reply. I don't want to have false hope, but I'm not ready to give up either. I'm dark, staying dark. Not even sure if that applies since I'm the wrong doer, but I'm not contacting him in any way. Not trying to slow down the Divorce. Just trying to be patient and breathe.

Re: Is there any hope for us? So Ashamed #2088317 10/12/10 03:55 PM
Joined: Nov 2009 Posts: 2,372 S soleil Member
soleil Member S Joined: Nov 2009 Posts: 2,372	SOA, I forgot... did he file yet?

Re: Is there any hope for us? soleil #2088336 10/12/10 04:18 PM
Joined: Sep 2010 Posts: 194 S So Ashamed OP Member
OP So Ashamed Member S Joined: Sep 2010 Posts: 194	Originally Posted By: soleil SOA, I forgot... did he file yet? Yes, he met with the attorney before he dropped the bomb. I was served 6 days after he left.

Re: Is there any hope for us? So Ashamed #2088342 10/12/10 04:28 PM
Joined: Jun 2010 Posts: 539 Likes: 12 B bustorama Member
bustorama Member B Joined: Jun 2010 Posts: 539 Likes: 12	Hang in there, So Ashamed. What are you going to do for yourself, today? Me-53 W-49 D22,D18,D15 T-Since-12/2001 Married-9/2004 She Moved Out-5/28/2010 Piecing start-04/2011 Now-together Thread http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2079304

Re: Is there any hope for us? bustorama #2088398 10/12/10 06:05 PM
Joined: Sep 2010 Posts: 194 S So Ashamed OP Member
OP So Ashamed Member S Joined: Sep 2010 Posts: 194	Originally Posted By: bustorama Hang in there, So Ashamed. What are you going to do for yourself, today? Exercise. That's the only good thing I've been able to come up with so far. I'm broke as a joke. I need some suggestions on goals I can set for myself or things I can do for myself mentally, spiritually and emotionally. Suggestions please?

Re: Is there any hope for us? So Ashamed #2088403 10/12/10 06:09 PM
Joined: Jul 2010 Posts: 2,246 P pinhead Member
pinhead Member P Joined: Jul 2010 Posts: 2,246	Go to the library, read some books. Take a walk. Weed your garden if you have one. Weed someone else's if you don't. Clean the house.

Re: Is there any hope for us? So Ashamed #2088451 10/12/10 07:53 PM
Joined: Jul 2008 Posts: 5,299 C Coach Member
Coach Member C Joined: Jul 2008 Posts: 5,299	Quote: I need some suggestions on goals I can set for myself or things I can do for myself mentally, spiritually and emotionally. Suggestions please? - learn something new - revive a hobby - volunteer - pray/meditate - read jokes - make a list of what you are grateful for - read - call a old friend - smile at someone M22,H45,W45 S21/18D12 Retain faith that you will prevail in the end, regardless of the difficulties and at the same time confront the most brutal facts of your current reality, whatever they might be.

Re: Is there any hope for us? Coach #2088747 10/13/10 02:52 PM
Joined: Sep 2010 Posts: 194 S So Ashamed OP Member
OP So Ashamed Member S Joined: Sep 2010 Posts: 194	Today, I'm fighting with the same question that I can't seem to get over. How do I tell him how sorry I am if he won't speak to me?

Re: Is there any hope for us? So Ashamed #2088750 10/13/10 02:56 PM
Joined: Nov 2009 Posts: 2,372 S soleil Member
soleil Member S Joined: Nov 2009 Posts: 2,372	Maybe you could write him a letter saying you are sorry and hope he will forgive you one day. Anyone else--suggestions?

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