No it is YOU that is insulting. Calling your gf your wife when you didn't make the EFFORT to actually do it is the insult to people like me.. I don't see you apologizing for insulting those who actually ARE married. I realize it is a "tecnicality" to a person who doesn't take marriage serious enough to actually do the work. Then gets offended when someone who points it out to them.

I am now going to bow out. I get it..
You want help if the help is in agreement with you.
You didn't like what I said, the way I said it etc.. It didn't inspire you the right way and such..

My bad. I could have sworn that you wanted honest feedback.
I gave it to you. I have learned from years of helping people that they don't always respond very well when they get what they say they want.

"Be honest with me"
" I want honest feedback"
"I post these things to get honest feedback and welcome it"

The person then hears some things they really don't want to hear....


"oh NO, don't tell me THAT"
"don't say it like THAT"
"you aren't very inspiring"


Here you go Pookie..

You are doing the right thing. You are one of the best Dbusters I have ever seen. She is falling back in love with you. Hang in there. Don't believe anything she says and only half of what she does. Keep up the good work. I am proud of you. It won't be long she will be wanting sex with you every night and be telling you how much she has always loved you. You have become an expert in only a few short months and it took me going on thirty years to learn half of what you know already. Good job.



Last edited by gucci loafer; 10/13/10 02:53 PM.