Mrs. A, I think "no contact" would do you good. It's clear you both want diferent things. You still want and hope to reconcile with him, he wants you and OW(s).
Uh uh, no way, no how. You have tried above and beyond to work things out with him (which is very commendable) and he is still showing you he's not in it 100%. You deserve better. The more contact w/ you, the most convoluted your head will be...
Someone wrote this thing once that said "Reluctant partners are never wholly committed." Ain't that the truth? All or nothing.
