My Situation - any thoughts or ideas

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What do you guys think of these goals? Feedback welcome:

S/T
* Help W to smile or laugh every day
* Open up to W about my work and what's going on there
* Be open to W talking about her work
* Be understanding about W's work and her need to work in the evenings and night
* Put my family ahead of everything else
* Have a great time with the kids
* Take as much pressure off W as possible around the house - especially when she's able to sleep
* W will initiate any physical contact - even just a touch on the hand


L/T
* Agree to work on marriage and not divorce
* Develop strong emotional connection
* balanced, mutually rewarding sex life w/no pressure around frequency or specific acts
* shared view of finances and financial goals
* balance on family, work, couples time.