Finding My Way

[Mystik]

I want to know if H is aware he can now file on the grounds of no-fault. I don't want to be surprised when he either hands me the papers or has them mailed to me, I want to be able to anticipate them so it hopefully comes as less of a blow. But at the same time, I'm in no rush for a divorce so the longer he stays in the dark about being able to file is fine with me. So I'm torn on asking him if he is going to file or not.