Well, she didnt get her job back, I didnt let her move right back into my home, I said we needed to work on it first. So she ignored me and is living back with the OM. Wow, good thing I didnt just let her walk back in. What kinda guy would allow his affair girlfriend pack all of her stuff, quit her job so she didnt have to see him and leave without any notice and then let her come back into his home? well I sent him the txt messages from her to me saying that her love for me was more than just mere feelings she had for him. She is playing games, I told her to talk to me when she has grown up and is prepared for a serious talk. until then she is just the mother of my children and nothing more.
So thought maybe I was on the right track with her, but I guess not. When i didnt give in to her immediate demands she couldnt wait. So her loss.