cheated on, lied to, and now I am moving on

[awest1217]

Very tired today. It is a blah day at work because the sophomores are taking the PSAT all morning and I mostly have sophomores, but it will be a nice change.

I had the strangest dreams last night. I was talking Monday to my B about H and the D finally going through (whenever the L gets things done). B asked if I thought H would keep following through with seeing S. I said I don't see H pushing for seeing S more. He isn't trying to get a place so he could have S overnight so I just don't see it happening. I think it would cramp his bachelor lifestyle to have to put S to bed early and get up early. Also OW is very needy (H even said that is one thing he doesn't like about her when we were together) so I don't see her being ok with not seeing H if she needs him. So the dream was that H moved to Virginia after the D was finalized (why there I don't know). I figure if OW and H do stay together they will end up in PA where she is from within a few years especially if children are involved. She constantly was saying how she wanted to go back and if they are both D'd from their spouses and get crap from people about it...well it will push them away. Anyway the dream was H moving to Virginia and asking for S to come see him over teh summer. I said yes, but I would be coming too so he would have to get someplace for me to stay for at least one week since S has NEVER spent the night with H I would want to make sure he was ok before I left. It was all crazy.

In other news, Monday, I took the table and chairs back to his parents. I asked H about it last week and then again last Sunday and he never replied so I just took care of it myself. His mom was there (I called ahead) and she said she was hoping to have the garage cleaned out so she could park her car in the garage before winter. I let her know that H still has at least a room full of stuff at the house and that surprised her. I really think what I can't stand about his parents is that they want to be naive. They don't want to really know what is going on so they just act like H hasn't done anything and allow OW to hang out with them even though they are both still married, and let H go on vacations with OW even when we were still trying to work things out.

HOpefully this will all be done soon. I have to call the car place today because they haven't called me like htey said they would (surprise surprise), and hopefully the L gets back to me on the D because I am ready for this to be over officially.