In the process

[newmama]

Einstein was loopy, cheated on his wife and abandoned his son. So no wonder he didn't wear socks on a regular basis!

Well I went on the date and first of all, the guy is like 30-40 pounds heavier than his picture! WTF? I tried to be honest. I am actually about 15 pounds lighter than mine at this point but I am leaving those old ones up there.

He is still attractive enough but I think the weight bothers me more than I expected. Weird! I always thought a guy with a few extra pounds is still sexy. Hmmm...

anyway the conversation was ok. I had another hard day at work so I had to transition. He was with his ex for 13 years, she cheated on him. 10 were just as boyfriend girlfriend. She had a 2 year old when they met and he never adopted him, but is still his "dad" and has him whenever the son feels like it. Which is about 50-50. I thought this was weird...his son is 16. He texts his mom or dad each day by 3 to let them know where he is going.

Orenco or his ex will say something like "no problem- see you soon!" or "sorry tonight isn't good."

but I am NOT I repeat AM NOT a go with the flow kinda gal when it comes to knowing if "I get" to see my boyfriend. I mean if I were to want to date this guy regularly, I like to say " ok-- let me know what day is good for you next when you get a chance. I can do Tues or Thurs" (for example) and then the guy will let me know. BUT if he doesn't know until 3 that Tuesday, well....
no! I can't do that kind of thing! Because I like to make plans within a few days ahead! I mean it is ok to not make a plan and then as a surprise, call up and ask if they want to do something but not when I am not knowing every time...you know? Am I uptight?

He said "so do I look like my pics?" and what was I supposed to day? I said yes- you are dressed the same way. Then he said "well you look way better in person!" so what should I be sayign?

and we had some comfortable conversation in parts- he kept telling me that I was talkative but he liked it. I was asking about him, etc. and he would say "oh let me be sure to ask about YOU too!"

So we had dinner and about 1.5 hours in, after we ate, I said "well I'm kinda tired. It's been a long day!" so we walked out and I gave him a hug goodbye. I think I said 'it's been good talking to you' because it was... but not like amazing! As soon as I got in the car and left the parking lot, he texted me and said "you're super cute!" well I was talking on the phone so i cuoldn't text (and I was driving) so around 30 minutes later, after he texted me that, he said "so?" and I felt bad. We texted back and forth and he asked to see me again. I said sure and we can't figure out when at this time.

Meanwhile, country boy emailed me so we'll see how that goes!