Trying to grow a backbone!

[newmama]

I don't re-write the marital history to downplay the good times. They were fun and great. BUT that was with a man who was committed and loving and good to me. So you may have had fun with him but since the divorce, the time you spent with him...it wasn't the Mr. A you married. I think that is what woudl be so hard- wanting it to be the way it was.

My dear, it is a day to day survival. It is not like you can say "just wait it out. It will get better." It gets better a day at a time which turns to a week and then a month...and you look back and go "holy crap- I have been doing ok without Mr. A for 3 months now?" you know....

but I am not over it yet. Just better than I was.