Back from Vegas for my Buddy's wedding, had a blast hung out with some old school friends who live there now, they all hate it!!! HAHA, tried to call the kids a few times while out there, the W did not answer, received a text the next day saying they have all been sick and to call earlier. I finally talked to the kids the last day I was there, after i spoke to the kids the W got on the phone about me seeing them this week. She asked If I could take them today, the day I came back, I said yes and met her at a gas station to pick them up. The W kept smiling and looking at me as i spoke with the kids, my S lost his first tooth while I was gone and I praised him for being such a big boy! the W had a grin from ear to ear listening to me talk to the kids!
I took the kids home and the W called about an hour before their bedtime, I hit the talk button and handed the phone to D, D talked to W for a while then I handed the phone to S, S didnt want to talk to W So as I picked up the phone, W starts to ask about my trip and it lead to chit chat, she then asked if D wanted her doll, I asked D who said yes she does, and the W was in the area? W told me this, probably wondering if I would ask her why she was in the are, I didnt ask, didnt inquire just told her she could drop it off.
As the W showed up so did the roommate, W walked in gave D the doll and left. Dont know if she wanted to stay around more, but when the roommate showed up I think it changed the dynamics. I didnt let it phase me, she left and then texted me with " the houses here are gorgeous" I sent a text back about 15 mins later saying " did you mean to send me the last text?" she replied yeah!, I said I havent driven through the whole area, and I left it at that. No response from her after that.
I feel good still, have days where I want my family together, but at the same time my focus has been a famliy is still a family, I have to be strong for my kids and make shure they know their father is always there for them period!
