Funny you mention that about feeling for them, CTH. With all of my ex's bs this week, I thought of him as a child having a tantrum, and I wasn't mad at him. Then I actually felt pity for him, bc it would suck to be so miserable all the time. I don't exactly want him singing the praises of ow and his snazzy new life, but at the same time I have compassion for the pain and misery he has put himself in.
