Your description could be both fun.. and "vulgar".
Lets find a different word.
"I question that now more than ever."
Which is understandable. This situation has changed your perspective. The person reacting to this situation is surely a person you would never associate with.
How has her perspective changed? And is it a realistic view of the situation?
On to the list...
"- Dissatisfied with herself - Capable, but does not know it. - Beautiful - Sexy - Disorganized - Hugely capable of loving - Sees me like a father - She comes from a divorced family and absolutely fears becoming her mother who she sees as a narcissist - Fills her life with stuff, shoes, clothes, sewing equipment, books. She dislikes this tendency - Flits between one thing and another. - She does have a tendency to be physically attracted to dangerous guys (climbers, her boss, another guys whose job I can’t say) - Smart. - Well read. - Unsure of herself. - Has a difficult time planning. - Hates pretense - NEEDS to be reassured of just about everything - Seeks validation of others - Makes me just smile! - Thinks of herself as weird, and thinks that if she had shown me her true self early I wouldn’t have picked her - Has a hard time accepting that I love, respect and cherish her. "
Good list.
If we look at it.. and ponder it.. what are things you can control?
Seriously.. I applaud you for that list. You did a great job with that!
Now I want to "see" what you do with the list.
"That is just off the top of my head. I could go on or dive into any one."
Again.. go with the list you have and think about what I want you to do with it...
What are things you can control?
"I think she had the affair for a few reasons."
I will come back to your answers.. I read them.. and they tell a story.
But you are leading.. I am just here to hold you to it.
Now...
Do Work.
Relax Eat Think Act normal React.. Smartly. Do something different. Emulate. Do Work.
