Thanks for everyone's input. I didn't need to wait for the deadline...she called Monday with a hopeful message, and that quickly soured to her wanting a divorce. So I'm officially filing for a D. I've been on the boards off and on since Dec 31 and while I've been trying to change, she keeps saying she needs time.
Warning to all WAH's/LBS...time is an enemy when it is taken for granted!
Thanks for your thoughts everyone & best of luck on not ever having to come back to this site in your current R or a future one if that is what God knows is best for you....Adam