A small detachment milestone. I was running the scoreboard for a volleyball match (part of my expanding third job) when I thought about STBXW's note that she couldn't afford to pay the after school sitter to watch the kids for the day.
I kind of felt sorry for her. The house didn't sell and she worked hard on it. I imagine things aren't working out quite how she wanted and ... I momentarily felt sorry for her.
Then I remembered the trip to South Dakota, the crap she pulled at Christmas, etc., and I was back to mad.
Still, for a moment there I actually wished things were going better for her and that's when I remembered something posted in these forums a long time ago ... True detachment is when you not only are no longer mad at the ex, you actually wish them well.
I'm not there yet, but I finally glimpsed the finish line.
Me: 47, Ds 17-13, D final 6-11 http://tinyurl.com/yk4e2tz http://tiny.cc/thread2 http://tinyurl.com/ydtphqu http://tinyurl.com/thread4 http://tinyurl.com/3sm78k6 http://tinyurl.com/thread6