Hi Lea,

Ugh, your story is so frustrating and annoying...I'm so sorry to read about it!

The advice I have for you is something I'm sure you've thought about but haven't allowed yourself to dwell on...Stop focusing your energy on your XH and the OW. It IS frustrating and his situation w/ the OW SUCKS. WITHOUT. A. DOUBT. Take some time (if you haven't already) and allow yourself to dwell on that. But then, realize how much energy you are GIVING HIM and THOUGHTS of HIM.

He. Isn't. Worth. It.

Lea...HE ISN'T.

OW CERTAINLY isn't worth it.

Let's talk more about co-parenting...how's that been going?


H & I, both 32, together since 18.
*M 7/03, A since 9/06. Bomb 7/07, H ended it w/ OW 9/08
* Agreed to D 6/09...very hard
*D 8/10
* At peace, have become great friends w/ X-H and his new GF