It was a great night. The thing is, she's the LD half, so she probably didn't have to do that to get my attention. But I think doing it excited her, and that made her night better, too.
But it's taken us a couple of years to get to the point where she'll do things like that.
Monday we were both doing boring chores--I was at home doing plumbing work and laundry, she was out running a kid to errands and grocery shopping-- and I took a moment when that red dress and panties passed through my hands. I took a photo of them in my hand and sent it to her with the message "Thinking of you."
Later in the day, we snuggled on the couch and I fed her sweets (she didn't feed me sweets, but she did find an excuse to suck a little sugar off my fingertip, and just typing that gave me another little tingle.) That night we had good sex again. I can't prove it started with that photo, but it couldn't have hurt.
I also set her phone's alarm to go off daily at 8:30 p.m. and display "Sex with (SillyOldBear)" as the event. What do you think? Too subtle?
