Snodderly - nice to see you visit my tread...thank you. I think that you are right...he knows that he screwed up...yet he keeps continuing on the same path....for now
SA - it actually seems that something has changed with H....he seems more caring, concerned....don't know what that means if anything....
Eric - yes I was driving my SUV. I'll lend you mine if you lend me yours lol
Kissak - thanks for stopping by, I know you have much on your mind right now (((hugs)))
This morning H wanted to come over to pick up something from the garage and talk to me as he put it "about the house situation", apparently he has an idea how not to have to sell the house....
So he came and his idea is that I make a small apartment out of one part of the house to get extra income. I told him that I already thought about it and it may have been an option before I took the second mortgage on the house....I can't afford the house on my own. And besides it's way to much work for me alone to maintain the garden, clean it and it costs to much to run the house for just 2 of us girls. To that he said that he would like to help on the house work. Just call him anytime I need something....well that's not going to happen....I'm not calling him for help. But I just said thank you for your suggestions and the offer.
Why is he all of a sudden so worried about me selling the house? Could it be because the separation agreement is being drawn up? I don't know, I'm just confused....he is still projecting that he is happy continuing on his own or should I say with OW, yet I see signs of him trying to pull closer. Maybe it's the separation agreement.....
He keeps commenting or "liking" anything I post on my Facebook...another comment today....
Also he wanted me to go to a business networking tonight with him, but I'm not feeling well so I sent him an email canceling....he emailed back being all concerned if I'm OK and that he is sorry that I'm not feeling well and to take care of myself.
Who knows what he is thinking...peeking out, guilt, reality sinking in....but there has been a change in the last week or so.
Keeping on my path....going forward with my plan
(((hugs everyone)))
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