If there is a communication issue, problems build. Me and W had a BIG communication issue, but it didn't drive me over the edge, only her. Why?
Doesn't communication seem to be a common thread in almost every sitch? As far as why, it seem the WAS is usually a woman when communication is the problem. We all know men don't open up as easily as women. Women know it, too. It's one of our traits that we need you (our W) to constantly help us with. It doesn't necessarily mean we don't want to, just that we're not really sure how.
By God, we're learning how important it is now.
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This is a 2-way street, but only one bailed out. However, I am getting to that point myself now.
Yep, it does go both ways. "His needs, her needs." What seems so simple and intuitive in the beginning gets more difficult as life happens. Now that we (LBS) understand, we want the chance to prove it.
$hit happens. Life happens. Roll with the changes. Learn and grow. I don't know why certain ones bail and other don't.
I think I'm getting close, too. I don't want to be the one to give up and bail. Sometimes, it feels like I'm being set up to do just that.