Well although you wanted him to work less I am sure it is strange to have him suddenly around so much more....one thing I thought about if I had ever been able to R with Dan is what it would be like to get used to having him around so much again...you have gotten used to living single much of the time with him at work. However with time I think you will get used to it! I have heard similar things from women when their husbands retire and they are suddenly around all the time.
Glad the health scare was resolved, I am sure it was terrifying until you knew the full story...
