From your recent posts, it sounds like whatever you are doing is working. I'm sure there will be some adjustments to make on the fly, but it sounds good to me.
Just my $.02.
I would thank you for your support but then I would prove Gucci that I only hear what I want to hear.
But you are right. I'm doing what works. I listen here to the vets and modify the advice to suit my sitch. Everyone's spouse is different. I'm learning about mine as I go along.
I'll let Gucci explain his point why I should still move out after all that's been working for me. If the drama it creates is worth it then sure.
I just don't by the pig in the sack just because it's a proven tecnique for others.
Some people here take the advice, run home and implement it without understanding why it's a good idea. Some don't even give enough info on their sitch to have any armchair councelor a full picture to comment on.
I think I've been honest with myself my W and tried to post back the results of my efforts as neutrally as possible. Even when that would embarrass myself because I failed.
I want to learn and be an inspiration to those who pop in here to read.
I value everybody's advice equally but ultimately it is my choice to implement the advice. That means I need to fully understand why is it a good idea and how it fits into my ever changing dynamic sitch.
