Back on the boards...but not sure why

[lea74]

Hi, I totally hear your pain. I have D for 4 months now and my XH had an affair and is now planning on marrying her next year. I also want my family and wish he would just change his mind. Everytime he shows me a bit of humanity I start to slip back, however I have to stay strong and draw a line under this all. I need to focus on the positive, try not to be bitter and start to make choices for myself and my sons. I am in control of my destiny, not him.

Not sure if that helps.