I don't know if I'll ever be ready to let him go, Soleil.
I know that it hurts your heart to your CORE but he is not invested/committed to you 100%. The sooner you can accept/see that for yourself, the better. Sometimes we have blinders on but he is showing you straight up what his deal is...
He wants to have you and this other chick....do you want that? Cause if you won't let him go, you are telling him that is fine and dandy with you.
Oh I wanted to add, you may want to check out Mrs. A's thread over in "Surviving the B D" forum--you guys are going through very similar things right now...
