Hi pinhead just to say "hello". Hope things are improving, you sound a lot more cheerful. Thanks for your advice in my situation. you're right about distance. we have to find the right distance from the problem, the right angle, perspective from which to view it. That's easy to say and so hard to do. NCU
Me: 46 H:42 Together for 18 yrs, married 14. 3 children: 2 girls 13 and 10, one boy 7. Husband had affair, ended it and then decided on separation. Separated 08/2010
