Originally Posted By: ericmsant2

Do you know what you are trying to do?

Fix HER

You can't

Are you? OR are you realizing where you failed in the M.

Did you cause your W's crisis?

Guilt my friend is a useless emotion!



I can't fix her. I'm not trying. This I am clear on.

I'll say it again...I KNOW WHERE I FAILED IN THE MARRIAGE...that is the damn problem.

I do believe my "crisis" actions led me to detach from my W and triggered her "Crisis".

Am I responsible for how she chose to handle her "Crisis"? NO I'm trying to FIX my role, ME MYSELF AND I.

Guilt is NOT useless! If I didn't feel guilt I wouldn't be trying to fix myself and she would be bouncing off a curb.