May go from Piecing to The Big D

[loweinsd51]

Been piecing and living together for the last month.

Things were going great for us until Sunday night. Her married male cousin (not blood related...3 kids) came to stay the night with us alone on his way back home. We had a great time and went through about three bottles of wine. We all go inside around 10:30PM and my W tells me "you should go to sleep now" and then she invites her cousin down to the apartment jacuzzi.

That didn't sit to well with me and I tried to explain that to my wife and in the process I went ballistic. I threw out F bombs, and a go to he!!. I started packing to go stay at my parents house. I eventually regained my composure apologized and then slept on the chair (her cousin was on the couch).

Also, her cousin does sensor installation in offices out of town and she has indicated that she would like to help with the installations to earn around $1000.00. Now, there is another person on the crew but the idea of my wife out of town with a non blood related male is uncomfortable at the very least.

Last night my wife said she needed to be alone and needed some space and said one of us should sleep on the couch. I obliged kissed her goodnight and told her I love her.

So today I will not text or call her to check in.

Were my initial objections warranted or was I just being insecure? And is this repairable?

[konfuseeed]

We had a great time and went through about three bottles of wine. We all go inside around 10:30PM and my W tells me "you should go to sleep now" and then she invites her cousin down to the apartment jacuzzi.

Uh... huh.


Seriously, that's just weird.

[loweinsd51]

Glad I'm not the only one who thinks so.

Wife accuses me of being insecure...

[konfuseeed]

The last woman who told ME when it was time for bed was my mom, and that was a loooong time ago.

[pookie69]

We had a great time and went through about three bottles of wine. We all go inside around 10:30PM and my W tells me "you should go to sleep now" and then she invites her cousin down to the apartment jacuzzi.

Uh... huh.


Seriously, that's just weird.

Is there a pattern to this?

[TimeHeals]

Things were going great for us until Sunday night. Her married male cousin (not blood related...3 kids) came to stay the night with us alone on his way back home. We had a great time and went through about three bottles of wine. We all go inside around 10:30PM and my W tells me "you should go to sleep now" and then she invites her cousin down to the apartment jacuzzi.

Cue the theme song for the movie "Deliverance".

[pinhead]

I kissed my cousin once, when I was 12. She was hot, we were at a family reunion in Baja. Creeped both of us out.

The idea of having a jacuzzi party with her now? Eww

[pookie69]

Cue the theme song for the movie "Deliverance".

Bobby: I had my first wet dream in a sleepin' bag.
Ed: How was it?
Bobby: Great. There's no repeatin' it.

[Susan1Survivor]

That IS weird.. The W "dismissed" the H.
H must not be told what to do like he is a little boy. Is a major control issue by the W.

calmness and peace, always~

[pookie69]

I kissed my cousin once, when I was 12. She was hot, we were at a family reunion in Baja. Creeped both of us out.

The idea of having a jacuzzi party with her now? Eww

My little cousin (female, 10 years younger) took me out to the female strip club once when she was about 25.

It's been very weird ever since.