1st - welcome back (wait, is that a good thing or a bad thing? LOL!) I have missed you!
2nd - wow! got the OW issue out there! I know that has been hard to keep silent about. will be interesting to see what he does now that you know.
3rd - nice to know that I am not the only one with the physical contact with H! okay, alright, I went all the way and you only went to first base - detail, details. but maybe you won't be quite as tough on me when we talk later
4th - he is really opening up isn't he? such a difference from even a few weeks ago. I will tell you what you already know - he still has a long way to go. don't freak him out by expecting too much from him right now. Go at his pace not yours. Take delight in the babysteps, but don't get too frustrated if he backtracks. slow and easy, slow and easy. He is like a patient opening his eyes after a year in a coma - he might feel like sleeping again is easier than the hard work of recovery that is ahead.
(that sounds like something you would say to me! am I learning?)
TAMF m:41 xh:41 T: 20 M: 15 D: 16 D: 14 Bomb dropped: 7/3/10 separated: 7/15/10 H moved in to new apt. with OW: 7/1/11 divorced: 8/26/12
