All WASs are expert wall builders. I don't know how you go dark if you work together. Truly going dark would also clearly tell eveyone at work that you two are splitting...so think about that

I think you can gain the same effect by treating like some random co-worker/acquaintance. You don't go out of your way to talk him, you don't look at him or see how he is doing, if you pass him in halls. Ignore texts, emails, phone calls if at all possible

And most important is detaching which is very hard. But you need to work at it.

As far as forgetting your good qualities...he's more than likely erased many of those from his mind already. The WAS tends to re-write history to justify their actions especially when there is an EA/PA


M39 W41
Two children
WAW bomb dropped 11/7/09
Piecing Aug 10 - Nov 10
No longer piecing...Nov 10
Separation Jan 11
EA ends again Feb 11
Piecing attempt #2, Mar 11