I struggle with trying to figure out if I should "go dark". When does one implement this? Pros: he will finally see what it is like to live without me Cons: he will forget my good qualities and only remember the bad, making it easier to walk away! He is very good at just saying "Fine", and walking away from things in life at times, even if he knows he will suffer. He is an expert wall builder. Any wrecking balls out there?
(Formerly blgp) Me-35 H-33 Married 4 yrs Together 9 yrs "Bomb" 8/1/10 Separated 8/6/10 D filed 10/21/10, on hold til 1/11
"If you want to hear God laugh, tell Him about your life plans."