Originally Posted By: DumpedforMIL
i no longer believe that men want to take care of someone. men only care about their own needs and making sure they are able to take more than they need to give.


Hi UST...

Why not take away "men" and substitute "some people"? My W sees $ as a way to control her life, even if it ruins mine/my kids when they are with me. So I have to consider ways to 'fight back'. MAYBE she has better intentions, but if we could have honest discussions during our M, we wouldn't be planning a D!

Men and women are different, but our reasons are related to our experiences, not just gender.