I can't remember what Kat looked like -- honestly -- I just remember what was said. My dreams usually fade quickly. The few STBXW ones have been vivid and memorable. Those aren't happening often any more.
Soleil, I'm not very worried about the L stuff -- maybe I'll be more anxious next week. Right now, I'm tired of being in limbo.
I am guessing if there's a proposal made it'll contain several things outside of normal agreements that I'll object to just because STBXW's lawyer isn't very good and just tosses in stuff he and STBXW think of. Half of the original divorce filing was gobbledygook that STBXW's L abandoned as soon as my L told him that wasn't standard practice in divorce agreements.
A friend from my church group is a lawyer and just started doing family law (divorces). She asked who my attorney was and when I told her she said "great choice." When I told her who STBXW's attorney was, she threw her head back and laughed.
She said, "tell your wife if she really wants to get divorced she needs another attorney. He'll never get it done."
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