I don't think you have to be with other people if you don't want to be just to GAL. I used to go to a tea house and read just to be somewhere else. It took a long time to get over my ex but I did it to save myself and my kids.
Next time my hopes were dashed, it took months versus a couple of years! hang in there.
kat
Me-53(and learning!) S24, S21, D18, D17 Just keep swimming, Just keep swimming. Dory