My wife has gone darker now, too. No communication for several days. Getting harder with each day.
I just can't understand why she would think being a part-time mom is a good thing for our daughter. Hard to stay focused on LRT. Sometimes I wonder if I am not paying her attention while following LRT, doesn't that leave the door open for another to fill the void?
Just remember, you have to stay strong for the kids. If you break down, not in front of them. Prayer helps to keep your sanity. Also, writing here helps.