And yes, I'm sure he will be. I just know how mad he is going to be about it all. Of course, if that's what it comes to because H will not let go of OW, then the kids have to know why he's being shown the door.
As for H's gestures, I'm sure you're right. I've accepted them to a degree, I guess, because I don't want him knowing I'm still looking for more intel. Trying to be somewhat status quo for the moment. I didn't bend to them, just accepted to them - if that makes sense.