OH: and last night - when it was all I could do to not blurt out all the new info to H that I know - guess what? He was being Mr. Nice Guy. Doing all these things for me, being affectionate... So NOW he decides to try and meet my needs??? Grrrr. I responded minimally. I have to get as much information as possible before I can make a better plan of action.

I'm tempted to msg OW on facebook and just simply ask whether or not she knows H is married with 3 kids.... probably not a good idea, but the thought is there.