I agree. He is not going to recommit to the marriage with someone else in the picture. That being said, JoAnn really advised me to keep showing him my 180... which is easy because I like the new me. Finally back in great shape and am addicted to my motorcycle... put on 100 miles on Saturday alone!

Continuing to be nice to him is hard. But I do try to concentrate on where he is coming from. He was incredibly hurt and dejected while I have been in this residency...no excuse for an A I agree...but it must have been very painful for him- I keep telling myself this as his behavior is so freaking erratic. If only the UFO would bring him back...urgh!

(Formerly blgp)
Me-35
H-33
Married 4 yrs
Together 9 yrs
"Bomb" 8/1/10
Separated 8/6/10
D filed 10/21/10, on hold til 1/11

"If you want to hear God laugh, tell Him about your life plans."