Lack of control will make you second quess your every move
Rysmom, What do you want really? What do you hope to gain in your life. Who is Rysmom? Who is she when the going get tough, when the H is a fu*king as*hole, who is this person. Find that and everything that you are worried about, all the questions you have will be answered.
Maybe this is not the answer you wanted. I can sit here and tell you what I would do but fu*k that's me NOT YOU.
So what do YOU really want Rysmom...oh...and that YOU can control.
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My lawyer keeps pushing for d and I don't like that.
Do they work for you or you for them?
Also, I do not believe that you can file AND not have him served. Your L should be able to advice.
One last point...you are trying to control this sitch and you do not want your life to change. This is killing you and driving you crazy. I hate to say, your life has already changed and will change again in the future. It is after all the natrual progression of life. Change happens. How we deal with it is what is really important. Fight it and you create stress and havoc in your life. Go with it...well then you may start to deal with it.
It is easier to swim against the current or with it?
Eric
"The difficulties of Life are intended to make us BETTER,not bitter". "Fear is a prison, where you are the jailer. FREE YOURSELF!" "Life is usually all about how you handle Plan B." - Jack3Beans
