Do not badmouth your wife at all to your kids. If they ask, be honest with them.

I am sorry to hear your W is still contacting/in contact w/ OM. You did good by moving her into the guest bedroom. Be a good dad to your kids and don't be negative to your W. If she wants out, let her have it.

Originally Posted By: Dane
I made my ex own the decision to get divorced. She wanted it to be a mutual decision


You know, my stbx did this too, I have no idea why some folks do this. Maybe it eases their mind/try to justify their decision to D with it?