Thanks Dane and Coach! I have on several occasions told her to leave, let me help you pack, but here in this state you cannot force your spouse out of the home. Lawyering up this week regardless!

Coach as for my kids watching how I handle this, that really is my number 1 concern - I will make sure they know that this decision to file is mine, but was demanded by the W - anything else I that would be prudent to add??

Thanks as always,

DD

Me 49
H 46
M 23yrs
T 25 yrs
Bomb Drop 4/2010
S22/D19/D15/S13

Same roof, different beds

"Honestly I can say this trip into my own private hell is a journey that I know now I had to take."