LOL. It is human nature to mind read. Hard not too. And I'm no good at following my own advice on that topic.

The ball is in your court. You can be in control.

Now that being said, I don't think there is ANY chance of reconcilliation while he is still involved in an A...EA or PA.

M39 W41
Two children
WAW bomb dropped 11/7/09
Piecing Aug 10 - Nov 10
No longer piecing...Nov 10
Separation Jan 11
EA ends again Feb 11
Piecing attempt #2, Mar 11