There is nothing formal in place, I saw it coming but still hits hard when it acctually happens.
She said we need to discuss when we have the kids so there is a structure in place for them.
She has not mention divorce yet but I expect thats coming soon also.
I have not been in contact since she called last night to tell me what she had done, and I won't be calling her first, if she wants to speak to me aboutthe kids she can call me.
My kids will be devastated by this, we were really close and I put them to bed most nights and helped with homework, this really hurts.
I have let her go, I would like to make it work, but after this I cannot see any future, I agree with other posts that her leaving is best for everyone in the future but I hate not being with my kids.
When we broke up years ago, but she never moved out, she went on holiday for a week with the kids, and came back wanting to make a go of it, so maybe this break will bring her back??
That is not my decision though, I have to think about me and make the best of the time when I see the kids.
God this hurts so much!!!!, but I have to be strong, I was nearly sick this morning getting ready for work, just knowing they were not in the house, hope I can get through this in one piece!!!!
Any thoughts would really help.
Same situation with the kids, my wife took them like they are her property, and hers alone.
Make your time special when you have them, do what is special with them, make new adventures.
Best advice I have, it is hard.
Last edited by Lostinlife; 10/12/1003:09 PM.
M-38 W-37 T-16,M-11 (Oct 30,1999) S-5 S-2 Wife left 7/4/2010
"When life hands you a lemon, say, 'Oh yeah, I like lemons! What else ya got?" — Henry Rollins
