His guilt seems to be like a time bomb. He sent me another text last night that he thinks I should start telling people at work (about us divorcing) and that he is tired of lying (at work, that we are still together... obviously a loaded statment) and that he doesn't like people talking about him (complete opposite of what he would have said in the past, or if he was innocent)
I sent an email back telling him "I know it is no fun being the center of discussion. Sorry, I can't do that. It is your choice, you will have to tell them. Take care"
I started to get a little worried that he would start telling everyone and it would be a disaster so I also sent a second one telling him that we should really think about the decision to tell people since I don't think it will make it an easier, everyone will want to give there input... no response since then.
GW- I feel like I maybe shouldn't push it regarding how much I know etc as he will then probably just go file for D. I don't think he is able to comprehend 'what life will be like without' me' if he thinks he has it pretty good right now. I feel like deep in his heart, he has to know I know. I don't know, what do you think??
(Formerly blgp) Me-35 H-33 Married 4 yrs Together 9 yrs "Bomb" 8/1/10 Separated 8/6/10 D filed 10/21/10, on hold til 1/11
"If you want to hear God laugh, tell Him about your life plans."
