How to tell the kids

[DanF]

Sorry U Sexy Thang, I hope you don't think less of me.

no dan, i don't think less of you.
besides, does it matter what i think?

To me, it does matter somewhat what people think of me. I don't let it rule me, but I am what you say I am and if people think badly of me, I must be doing the wrong things. I try very hard to be a good person and do the right thing.

sorry i have been absent from your thread.

No need to be sorry. You don't owe me anything. I am grateful for the time you DO give me.

i also don't believe in "getting under someone to get over your ex". that to me, says you're trying to get a reaction out of them .. there is an underlying sense of "getting back at your ex". that isn't fair to the person you are meeting.

I don't really believe that either. That is just my MACHO self talking big. I'm getting to the point where I am not sure that I really do care about W anymore. 10 months of this has taken it's toll and if she wants to be done, fine. I am ready to move on too. Her loss.

UST. <- love my new name.

Me too!!!

p.s. i am trying to stay out of threads that talk about $$. it's a sore spot with me.

Ok. As you can tell, it is a sore spot with me also. She wants to leave and says she doesn't care about the money, but she has no issues continuing to live off of me while refusing to put in her best effort to support herself and then continues to ask for more? UFB!

You can skip those posts or just tell me I'm being an a$$hole if that is what you think. I do appreciate your insights and wouldn't want to lose your support due to a few $ posts.

Thanks for everything UST!!